It can be. The important part is moving at a pace that's comfortable for you. Sometimes that means just talking about the things you would while deflecting- and that's alright! One of the important parts of working with a therapist is developing the level of trust you need before talking about anything serious after all.
That sounds like it could take a long time though?
If there were one thing she'd felt incredibly pressed for these past several years, it was always time.
What if it takes too long?
She said, as if she weren't already quite good at simply coping as needed. And as if she didn't already freely tell people a lot of what she considered more 'minor' things.
Don't think about the end of things. What matters here isn't actually the 'end'.
It's about the journey. It's about making steps, even small ones. If you've taken a few steps up a ladder, you've still made it up a ladder, even by a little.
And for another way of seeing it...brushing your teeth once a week would be better than never brushing at all right?
Ritsuka was taking it seriously, at least? Even if it was clearly kind of a lot, for various reasons. But that said, one thing at a time, and first of all:
well for now though I need to find something for that dinner
I mean he's just fussy about stuff in general too tho
That and there was a vast difference between being fashion-conscious and wearing the same suit even when the weather was so hot you needed to use magecraft to stay cool.
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If there were one thing she'd felt incredibly pressed for these past several years, it was always time.
What if it takes too long?
She said, as if she weren't already quite good at simply coping as needed. And as if she didn't already freely tell people a lot of what she considered more 'minor' things.
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It's about the journey. It's about making steps, even small ones. If you've taken a few steps up a ladder, you've still made it up a ladder, even by a little.
And for another way of seeing it...brushing your teeth once a week would be better than never brushing at all right?
[Just putting it that way makes her mouth hurt.]
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I mean, I guess I really don't know much about it, anyway...
I just
I don't know if something like that would help?
But if you're sure...
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And if you ever get worried about things while trying, I'll still be here too.
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Ritsuka was taking it seriously, at least? Even if it was clearly kind of a lot, for various reasons. But that said, one thing at a time, and first of all:
well for now though I need to find something for that dinner
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We're agreed on it probably being...semi-formal, right?
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... I mean I guess it doesn't matter for Waver he wears suits all the time but still.
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(Yeah...guys get a cheat pass on events like this...)
I have a few ideas...I can have Paisley send you some pictures for inspo?
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Sure, sounds good.
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Great though!
...especially because I'm feeling really under the weather right now...ughhhhh
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oh you think you're coming down with something??
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[Fashion is hard when you are a strange dragon deer, even if you do actually have the funds to support it. The shoes...The shoes....]
I'm not sure...my magic hasn't been as focused, it feels? But I don't think I'm sick...
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That and there was a vast difference between being fashion-conscious and wearing the same suit even when the weather was so hot you needed to use magecraft to stay cool.
Maybe some kind of curse or something?
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I'll have to ask someone at PokeGo, we have a pretty good medic at least...